I'm a married stay at home mom of 4 children. I do everything for my kids because I never know how long I have with them. I've taught each of them to be self sufficient. I believe that teaching them how to take care of themselves and paying attention to their emotional needs will help them grow into great adults. I have been physically disabled all of my life. I've had numerous surgeries. I don't let it stand in my way of having a normal life. I have strong opinions on parenting, breastfeeding, adoption and abortion. My sister in law is having a baby. We will be helping her raise it just so it can stay in the family and she can continue to work 3 jobs to support the children that the men she ended up involved with refuse to support. I have had personal experience with trying to get the state childsupport offices to collect childsupport and they are of no use at all. They won't force parents to pay and they don't enforce court orders. Like I said strong opinions. Otherwise I'm a nice, careing person looking to find friends with like opinions and activties.