I am 35 and have been divorced or separated for over a year. Right now, my focus is moving forward with my life and being a GREAT mom to my almost 10 year old son. Being a divorced mom has not been an easy transition. I was married for 10 years and together for nearly 13. That is a whole lot of life to have to walk away from. But, everything happens for a reason and now, things are finally good again!