Pregnancy

So don't worry ladies...it can happen! :)
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I know exactly what you're talking about! OMG this is probably way too much info...but I don't even like to get 'on top' anymore because I can feel the saggy skin bouncing up and down! YUCK!!! I always end up closing my eyes, because if I were to notice my husband looking I think I would die of humiliation. It's just no way to live=( I just popped out my last kid, and I plan on getting the tuck as soon as possible.
Quoting Denisethedaring:
Yeah, honestly I look fine in all my clothes, the same clothes I wore prior to pregnancy--they're tighter at the waist because of the skin flap and the slight bulging caused by the separated muscles, but I don't look any different and in some cases look better than the women I know who've never had any kids. Unfortunately, OUT of my clothes is a tooootally different story. It makes me barf, I don't even know how my husband can stand to look at that and still want to do anything with me. :) (He does though! I don't think he cares nearly as much as I do.)
Quoting jamamama00:
I have come out of labor and delivery every time able to put on my pre-pregnancy jeans. The issue with me is not the pounds, but the effects of stretching on my skin. I guess I have shitty elasticity, because my belly came out with a hanging pouch and awful stretch marks, and nothing short of plastic surgery is going to fix that.
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After I had my first baby, it took me a couple of months to get even a little remotely ready to start loosing weight. Low and behold, 5 months after I had my son, we are preggers again! My first pregnancy I gained almost 60 lbs, because I ate what ever I wanted and didn't exercise. This time around I am eating better, and walking, and doing preggers yoga. Learned my lesson!
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Some women's hips go back to the same size or smaller after a baby so don't scare people saying there hips will stay big. After dd my hips were smaller than before I had her.. Now granted this baby might be a totally different story haha
Quoting SuperMom2433:
This is exactly how I feel. Also, something a lot of women need to keep in mind is there are parts of your body that will never go back to the size you were prepreg. Like hips.
Quoting lifeforchrist:
women need to be realistic when it comes to pregnancy weight and realize we are all different. Expecting to be back to normal in a month is silly. It took you 9 months to get there give yourself 9 months to get back to the ol you and stop pressuring yourselves. You have a new baby, focus on that not the size of your waist line :)
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You would be surprised how much weight comes off after birth. Between baby, placenta , fluid and water weight... I have never weighed myself right after birth. But around 12 days pp I hoped on my mother in laws scale during a visit. I lost like 18 lbs.... I don't think I've lost much since but that's okay. I will eventually.. maybe not all of it but that's okay too :)
Quoting nerdymom28:
Surely you didn't really mean 8 DAYS....right? How could you lose 25 lbs in 8 days?