Ok ladies, this might sound silly, but im torn. I know I still have some time to decide, but the question came up between my husband and I the other night about whether or not we wanted more children, because depending on our choice depends on how seriously we have to take the birth control. We both decided that we dont want any more than two, but now I cant decide if I even want another child. I have a beautiful little girl, she is my angel, and I feel like I dont need another kid because she is perfect. Then again...i would really like to have another so she Isnt lonely and we can be that typical big happy family, ya know? If anyone is wondering...i am an only child and my hubby has 2 brothers. We both liked and hated certain things about it.
If you're having to ask yourself if you want another, I would not shut the door on it at all. We thought we were done after 3, but have recently had our 4th. He fit so perfectly into our family that neither one of us can imagine if we'd stopped. My heart never felt like we were done.
This is a decision only you and your husband can make but i understand where you coming from we recently added a new member to our family it took us four yrs but i have to say we are truly happy. our little family feels complete we have a boy and a girl. at first we only wanted one child but we tought it was selfish on our part to not have a brother/sister for our oldest. we both have brothers and sisters so we know that is very important to have siblings. my advice is to think carefully of the pro and cons and whatever you decided will be the right choice for your family.