The name I always wanted but had boys is Emma but honestly do what you want. We named our second son Connor which I wanted even though hubby's cousin had a son abmonth before and gave him the same name. She did spell it different though with er instead of or.
I totally agree that you need to agree with Dh on baby's name. I hate it when women pretend they can override their husbands preferences. Ok, on to your trouble, with my little sister (back in the 90s) my parents were stuck between Lily and Coral. They went with Coral (but she is 19 now and it's still not a popular name, so if you like it, you're probably safe). Other names my parents used for their daughters were Cana, Naomi, and myself; Abra.
Good luck! And Congratulations on your daughter! They are so much fun to raise!! You're gonna have a riot!