February 28, 2008 at 11:22 AM
ok, My husband wants no more kids ( we have three boys and I really want a girl). He wants to have a vascetomy. however, whenever i dont feel good, have a headache, or just tired he says "maybe I got you pregnant..." huh? I never say anything about being pregnant. does this mean he wants another baby, or does this mean hes scared he might get me pregnant? thanks!
by katykayFebruary 28, 2008 at 11:24 AMonly your husband can tell you why he keeps asking that. Have you asked him if he is sure he doesn't want another?
by taracvFebruary 28, 2008 at 11:26 AMIs he paranoid? LOL I would just ask him. Could it be that he is rethinking his decision?
by minimom11107February 28, 2008 at 11:28 AMMy SO says that all the time... I think he just says it as a joke. Like it's a disease and contagious! LOL
by awhittingtonFebruary 28, 2008 at 11:28 AMSit down and have a talk with him. That way neither of you are operating on false assumptions. Good luck!!
by 3boymFebruary 28, 2008 at 11:29 AMAsk him!!! Sounds like a quiet dinner out and a bunch of conversation about both of your thoughts and feelings about more kids would be a good idea.
Also, it's highly possible that he both wants and doesn't want more kids-- leave room for him to have both sentiments inside!
February 28, 2008 at 11:30 AMHumm im not so sure but if he told you he doesn't want kids and you already have 3 boys maybe he is scared, i know sometimes my bf will say the same thing and then when my aunt flow comes to visit he is so excited, its not that he doesn't want more kids its just that we cant have anymore for a while, due to finances :o) i know what you mean about wanting a girl i want a little girl as well i think im going to try for one in 5 years or so :o)