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LilDzMamma2010
should i tell him?? WWYD
March 19, 2013 at 2:45 AM
i just started a new relationship about 2 months ago things are good and we are very happy together. but i just miscarried his baby. i wasn't far along and we had no clue i was pregnant.

we have talked about having kids and we both agreed we wanted to wait a year or so.

so my question is should i tell him i miscarried?? i waited til he went to work the other day and went to the ER where they told me it was a miscarriage. i am very upset although i didn't want another baby right now...im still very hurt...WWYD???

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  • Zazayam
    by Zazayam
    March 19, 2013 at 2:58 AM

    I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.

  • LilDzMamma2010
    March 19, 2013 at 3:07 AM
    i am on BC.

    Quoting Zazayam:

    I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.

  • Zazayam
    by Zazayam
    March 19, 2013 at 3:24 AM

    Well in that case I would get on a different type, since yours apparently doesn't work.

    I am sorry for your loss by the way, even if you didn't know before hand I know it can be hard. I would tell him and hopefully he can be support if you need it.

    Quoting LilDzMamma2010:

    i am on BC.

    Quoting Zazayam:

    I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.


  • frndlyfn
    March 19, 2013 at 3:41 AM

    I would tell him so perhaps he can be more vigilant in using protection as well or slow down the relationship to presex status for awhile.

  • Bmat
    by Bmat
    March 19, 2013 at 8:51 AM

    Yes for sure you should tell him.  You should be able to rely on him for comforting and emotional support.

    I am sorry about your loss. :(

  • Bookwormy
    March 19, 2013 at 9:11 AM
    I'm sorry for your loss. I'd tell him. And I'd discuss a change of bc methods.
  • Bleacheddecay
    March 19, 2013 at 9:25 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not sure what kind of relationship you are in to even wonder if you should tell him.

  • marisab
    by marisab
    March 19, 2013 at 9:29 AM

    i would tell him because he need sto know so he can support you through the loss and get on bc for at least 6 mos

  • ThinkAgainMom
    March 19, 2013 at 9:30 AM

    I'm not sure I understand.  Why wouldn't you tell him?

  • hip2it
    by hip2it
    March 19, 2013 at 9:31 AM

    A different type AND a backup method.

    I agree with this, though:

    Quoting Zazayam:

    Well in that case I would get on a different type, since yours apparently doesn't work.

    I am sorry for your loss by the way, even if you didn't know before hand I know it can be hard. I would tell him and hopefully he can be support if you need it.

    Quoting LilDzMamma2010:

    i am on BC.

    Quoting Zazayam:

    I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.



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