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annaflaka
Concern very very
February 8, 2013 at 10:05 AM
I have a fiancé who we now live togethe. When I first meet him I look in to his stuff and found a porn magazine where it had "young girls" but that was it at the time. We been together for a long time and we talk about my dd he said he sees her as his own" but two weeks ago I saw him on his phone and he had porn in it with young girls in it! We got into a big argument and he said " it is f@;$;$ insulting you eve mention that!!" He said how could think this? He said it was a pop out and he didn't even open the video, that he just looks at pictures but not youn grils! I know most men looks at porn but should I be worried? I have ask my hold if he ever have look, touch it said anything she said no!! And I know my daughter she will tell me!! Plus now hey have I the you relation! She is a teen and said that he takes all my attention but that is it!! Not sure what to do?

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  • breebree04
    February 8, 2013 at 10:24 AM

    Like you said guys look at porn. If he is not inappropriate with your dd and you dont get the feeling that hes some kind of pervert then he is probably just a normal guy looking at porn. Most of the girls in porn are young and hot, thats the point, it doesnt mean he likes teenagers. I say just go with your gut, you know if your dh is a good man or not. Good Luck!

  • atlmom2
    by atlmom2
    February 8, 2013 at 10:32 AM
    Sounds not good to me. Young girls? How young. I don't like porn. Very degrading to women.
  • SpiritedMom2
    February 8, 2013 at 1:39 PM

    I would be VERY concerned. Hes not her biological dad and you dont know him all that much. The fact that he looks at porn with teens gives evidence of where his sexual interests lie. Personally I would not stay with a man who looks at porn - I find it disgusting and demeaning - and  DEFINITELY would not stay with a man like that if I have a teen dd living with us! Sorry I dont mean to be judgmental - but I would be concerned...

  • amonkeymom
    February 8, 2013 at 2:17 PM

    I think it depends on how young the girls are.  Are they teens or younger?  Can you tell their ages by the pics you've seen?

    If you believe the pics are of underage girls, then you really need to report him to the authorities, take your daughter and run!

  • Reina13
    by Reina13
    February 9, 2013 at 10:48 AM

    I totally agree with this!



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    Quoting amonkeymom:

    I think it depends on how young the girls are.  Are they teens or younger?  Can you tell their ages by the pics you've seen?

    If you believe the pics are of underage girls, then you really need to report him to the authorities, take your daughter and run!


  • CrazyLife1996
    February 9, 2013 at 10:54 AM
    I think you already have the answer to your own question. If you fully trusted him around your daughter then you might be upset about the porn but you wouldn't worry about the age of the girls.
  • annaflaka
    February 12, 2013 at 7:45 AM
    Well they look 18-21 and he told me he look at porn because am always tired and I never want to have? But I have not seen any teens your topical young grils.

    Quoting amonkeymom:

    I think it depends on how young the girls are.  Are they teens or younger?  Can you tell their ages by the pics you've seen?

    If you believe the pics are of underage girls, then you really need to report him to the authorities, take your daughter and run!

  • Acid
    by Acid
    February 12, 2013 at 8:06 AM

    I'm sorry, I couldn't understand much of that.

    I do know that not all guys look at porn. 

    The rest of it wasn't very clear.

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