My 3 year has had a cold for a couple weeks, which she has been to the doctor for. Now she says once in a while her ears hurt and she cant hear. She has no fever and they seem to be oozing. Can you have a ear infection without a fever? I know you ladies are not doctors but maybe you have dealt with something like this. I'm debating if she needs to go to the doctor.
Yes...she needs to go to the doctor. My daughter had Cancer that caused black funk to drain from her ears. She never ran a fever. I'm not trying to scare you. Some kids just do not run fevers. I never have either.
If they are oozing it is likely that they have burst; if that has happened, the pain should have disipated (the pain comes from the pressure of the fluid). If there is still pain, you should take her to the doctor.