Come on ladies. Women have a rare sophistication that all men want but can't handle. The way we walk, the way we dress, the way we talk and style our hair...men adore all of those things because he likes how she can carry herself in a classy way. But is this a front? Do they like what they see but can't deal with her independency?
I'm not sure most men I know even notice if women style their hair so saying they love it is a stretch. I style my hair for other women because they notice.
I don't think I know any men that desire a woman that isn't independent.
Agree but it is possible that some women may flaunt their independence in a way where insecurity is automatically bestowed upon men because they feel that if she can do this and that herself, what purpose would he be to her.
Quoting owl0210: Insecure men are intimidated by independent women.