All depends on the situation. My DH thinking I am a bitch or calling me a bitch (has never happened).. kind of devestating. Someone who just met me callling me a bitch.. insulting. Someone I'm friends with.. just conversation lol someone like my DH's ex... Just means she isn't getting her way and I happen to be a favorite target.
It has completely different meaning depending on how it is said and who is saying it.
Depends on who says it and if I have previously given them permission to call me a bitch.
Oh had to come back and say if I force the word from my BIL it means I won the argument and he is always arguing me with me. Then he gets in trouble with his brother because he said it. I am the only one who gets away with calling my best friends that and I completely mean it as a compliment. Just like you can't go up and call someone weird you don't know as it would be offensive this word works much the same way. I can call my friends weirdo and the know I think being weird is a good thing. It used to mean your destined. Why is bitch good when we say it? Because when we say it we mean the entirety of the Meredith Brooks song.