When does one become qualified to babysit? Is there
a specific age or grade level that accurately measures the aptness of a
A 39-year-old woman was arrested for leaving her
four children – ages 13, 10, 4, and 1 1/2 – alone at home while she
attended church. According to this article,
she left the children in the care of her eldest child; but when a
neighbor called the police, stating that the 4-year-old wandered into
the yard across the street alone, this mother was charged with “risk of
injury to a minor.”
Some people are criticizing the mom, while others
are pointing fingers at the neighbor, “accusing her of acting in
anything but a neighborly way.”
When I was 13 years old, my parents felt I was
qualified enough to be entrusted with my 9-year old sister and
5-year-old brother while my mom went to the grocery store, or while my
parents went out to dinner for a Friday-evening date. I don’t know if
they would have done the same if I’d had an even younger sibling; but
regardless, they were never gone that long, and they were never too far
away. If my younger brother had wandered out into a neighbor’s yard, I
think that neighbor would’ve walked him back over to my house and then,
perhaps, stayed until my parents returned. Or, that neighbor may have
just returned him and scolded me, warning me about the possible dangers,
and would’ve later told my parents what had happened.
I also don’t think my little brother would’ve
wandered off without my knowledge. I was a bossy 13-year-old, and I
loved authority and responsibility. My siblings probably hated when I
was left in charge. I was a helicopter babysitter, just as I am a
helicopter mom (I make no apologies for my hover-hover-hovering).
Times have definitely changed since I was 13 and
children wandering out in streets or into neighbors’ yards can lead to
much more dangerous situations than they once would have; but have the
times changed so much that using a 13-year-old babysitter is considered
child neglect, or “risk of injury to a minor”?
When does one become qualified to babysit? What do you think?
What? Bizarre. My little sister watched my son for short periods of time starting when she was 11ish and he was 6. My sister and I were also very young when we started staying home alone. maybe 10 and 7.
13 seems definitely old enough to me! Maybe not to watch a baby, but older kids, sure.
I would generally say 13 is old enough to babysit, but to watch 3 kids, one of them under 2 years old? I don't know, that seems a bit much, imo. If the toddler wasn't there, I wouldn't see an issue at all, though.
legal babysitting age where I am is 12 but they have to take a class. I know because my mom teaches the classes. on the one hand the neighbor was a little unreasonable, on the other why did the mom not take the children with her? most churches have childcare.