When does one become qualified to babysit? Is there
a specific age or grade level that accurately measures the aptness of a
A 39-year-old woman was arrested for leaving her
four children â€“ ages 13, 10, 4, and 1 1/2 â€“ alone at home while she
attended church. According to this article,
she left the children in the care of her eldest child; but when a
neighbor called the police, stating that the 4-year-old wandered into
the yard across the street alone, this mother was charged with â€śrisk of
injury to a minor.â€ť
Some people are criticizing the mom, while others
are pointing fingers at the neighbor, â€śaccusing her of acting in
anything but a neighborly way.â€ť
When I was 13 years old, my parents felt I was
qualified enough to be entrusted with my 9-year old sister and
5-year-old brother while my mom went to the grocery store, or while my
parents went out to dinner for a Friday-evening date. I donâ€™t know if
they would have done the same if Iâ€™d had an even younger sibling; but
regardless, they were never gone that long, and they were never too far
away. If my younger brother had wandered out into a neighborâ€™s yard, I
think that neighbor wouldâ€™ve walked him back over to my house and then,
perhaps, stayed until my parents returned. Or, that neighbor may have
just returned him and scolded me, warning me about the possible dangers,
and wouldâ€™ve later told my parents what had happened.
I also donâ€™t think my little brother wouldâ€™ve
wandered off without my knowledge. I was a bossy 13-year-old, and I
loved authority and responsibility. My siblings probably hated when I
was left in charge. I was a helicopter babysitter, just as I am a
helicopter mom (I make no apologies for my hover-hover-hovering).
Times have definitely changed since I was 13 and
children wandering out in streets or into neighborsâ€™ yards can lead to
much more dangerous situations than they once would have; but have the
times changed so much that using a 13-year-old babysitter is considered
child neglect, or â€śrisk of injury to a minorâ€ť?
When does one become qualified to babysit? What do you think?
Sorry, but the fact that a 4-year old was out wandering around negates the argument in this story for me. CLEARLY her child was not responsible enough to be a babysitter. What was she doing at church that was so important? Meh, doesn't matter.