I just want to update that after I had that bleeding, I miscarried on Sunday night. It was horrible and I am so heartbroken- its's been almost a week and I have sudden outbursts :( please tell me this will get better. I wanted this more than life itself. Doctor have us the ok to try again after I get one normal period, but in the meantime, it hurts so bad :(
So sorry! I had a miscarriage in June and I still cry sometimes but it does get better. There is a group here called "Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss" that is great, you should join. Again I am so sorry you are going through this!
I miscarried last Friday... started on Christmas day. :( I completely understand what you're going through. It's a bit easier for me for some reason (not that it's all peachy keen... because it's not) because I think I knew... I didn't feel pregnant, I didn't have any symptoms other than cravings and lack of period.
I cried, DH cried, our kids cried. But now it's just like "Okay... life needs to go on..."
I got pregnant after my second mc but I didn't wait until I had my next period to have sex. I've had a lot of women say they got pregnant right away after a mc because everything gets really cleaned out. If I had waited I would not have my three month old in my arms now. For me it was healing in some ways to be with my dh. Also my belief is that the timing just wasn't right for whatever reason and the same soul of the intended child will come back in another pregnancy if you're meant to have another one.
I'm sorry:( I've had 3 my 2nd. was @ 19 weeks, a little girl. As awful as that was I went on to have a healthy little girl (9 weeks after my 19 week loss) Then after her we had another loss and about 12 weeks after that loss we got pregnant w/ twin boys! All are healthy. I look at my losses as gifts because if they never occurred I wouldn't have the babies I have now. I'm happy that I carried my angels as long as I could :) Good luck my friend.