going through a divorice

[ablanke]

Having a hard time dealing with the divorice my husband wants because he keeps sending mixed signals and playing mind games. Very flustrated. Even though i love him alot i dont want to keep playing games so i am trying to let him move on and he wont stop trying to talk to me all the time. i know we have a daughter together but we have agreed and made all arangeements that we really don't need to talk all the time. Then when i bring stuff up that i find out about him that hurts me or pisses me off i am the bad guy.

[offrdngal]

 If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

[KylesMom409]

Perfect advice. Hugs!

Quoting offrdngal:

 If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

[diaperstodating]

[Crissy2424]

You said he asked for the divorce. I don't know what led up to it, but just take it one day at a time. Keep busy with things to keep your mind off of it as much as you can. *hugs*

[nurse1997]

Play hard to get let him get a taste of what its like to be apart for good keep your feelings locked up inside until you know where he stands stay strong !

[godsgirl26]

Quoting diaperstodating:

[era75atl]

I know how you feel my ex does the same things. I decided that I needed to move away to make things better for everyone involved. It hasn't changed the way he behaves but it made it easier for me. I know that may not be Ann option for everyone.

[SallyB_LMT]

I'm sorry you're going through this.  Divorce sucks on many different levels.

[kyledavidsmom]

This is great advice

Quoting KylesMom409:

Perfect advice. Hugs!

Quoting offrdngal:

 If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

[Snuggle1980]

How long have You been apart?