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ablanke
going through a divorice
by ablanke
July 13, 2013 at 1:24 AM

Having a hard time dealing with the divorice my husband wants because he keeps sending mixed signals and playing mind games. Very flustrated. Even though i love him alot i dont want to keep playing games so i am trying to let him move on and he wont stop trying to talk to me all the time. i know we have a daughter together but we have agreed and made all arangeements that we really don't need to talk all the time. Then when i bring stuff up that i find out about him that hurts me or pisses me off i am the bad guy.

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  • offrdngal
    July 13, 2013 at 7:22 AM

     If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

  • KylesMom409
    July 13, 2013 at 8:25 AM
    Perfect advice. Hugs!

    Quoting offrdngal:

     If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

  • diaperstodating
    July 13, 2013 at 12:36 PM

    hugs

  • Crissy2424
    July 13, 2013 at 1:18 PM

    You said he asked for the divorce. I don't know what led up to it, but just take it one day at a time. Keep busy with things to keep your mind off of it as much as you can. *hugs*

  • nurse1997
    July 13, 2013 at 3:31 PM

    Play hard to get let him get a taste of what its like to be apart for good keep your feelings locked up inside until you know where he stands stay strong !

  • godsgirl26
    July 13, 2013 at 3:41 PM


    Quoting diaperstodating:

    hugs


  • era75atl
    July 13, 2013 at 4:31 PM
    I know how you feel my ex does the same things. I decided that I needed to move away to make things better for everyone involved. It hasn't changed the way he behaves but it made it easier for me. I know that may not be Ann option for everyone.
  • SallyB_LMT
    July 13, 2013 at 10:54 PM

    I'm sorry you're going through this.  Divorce sucks on many different levels.

  • kyledavidsmom
    July 14, 2013 at 12:50 AM
    This is great advice

    Quoting KylesMom409:

    Perfect advice. Hugs!



    Quoting offrdngal:

     If he is playing these games, don't take the bait.  Only talk to him if it involves your daughter.  When the conversation starts to drift, end it.  You need to just let go. Don't bring up anything, to him, that you find out. That's just setting yourself up. 

  • Snuggle1980
    July 14, 2013 at 11:54 AM
    How long have You been apart?

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