I don't want it. I don't want anything to do with it. Whether it be a kiss, a hug... or more. I don't want it from my husband. I just want "space". I don't want to be fussed with or over. Just leave me be. I don't know if it's something common that women my age go through or if it's saying something about my relationship. Does this sound familiar to any of you?
How late into your 30's are you? I have heard both. For my I actually became more into it however there could be a chance you are perimenopausal and that is what is causing it. Due to health issues I started menopause at 24. When it started if my husband even looked at me suggestively he got the stink eye. Now I'm more eeven emotionally and am always interested myself.
It's true. By the time the kids go to bed, I'm done. Then I have to continue with chores until I can't stand up anymore. Then you wake up the next day and it all starts again. Then again, even in passing (while getting the kids ready, while driving to and from work etc, etc)... I don't even welcome a touch of the hand, a kiss... I just shrug and pull away. Which can't be nice for him, I know... and I feel bad about that. Just don't want it.