30 Something Moms
I'm not. I do nice things, but I don't feel like a nice person. I can be pretty mean sometimes.
- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 58% - Yes
- 26% - No, but I do nice things
- 0% - No
- 15% - Other (please explain)
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I am a truthful person and people take that as being a bitch. I have this issue where I always tell the truth and if I feel someone could not handle it I just don't say anything. I have a hard time expressing myself and so I joke a lot. People think of me as fun and funny but when I get serious they go, "God, why do you have to be such a bitch? You were so fun to hang out with." I tell people if you don't want the answer to your question then don't ask!
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I am nice. I am quietly nice too which makes it worse. So all these amazing things happen for people not realizing I am doing it or I give them miles and miles of leeway trying to be understanding. The only thing I get in return is being run over.
For example, a relative treats me like crap and I don't say anything. Next thing I know for some random reason that same relative is complaining to other people that I did something they didn't like so everyone now hates me. That pretty much sums up my life story.
Slowly I am getting tougher but the transition isn't fun. Now people just think I am mean because I will say no and mean it but, whatever.