I was a great wife before I had kids. My house was super clean all the time, I always had everything organized and nothing was out of place. Every night I would sit with my husband while he bathed and visit. I'd wash his back, put his towel and pajama's in the dryer so they'd be fresh and warm when he got out of the tub. I'd leave him little sticky notes all over the house for him to find. I'd rub his feet every night then scratch his back until he fell asleep.
Once we had kids unfortunately all of that fell out of the window. I'm trying to get that back, but I don't have the time and energy I had back then:(