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The CafeMom Help Desk - Ask Questions Here! FAQs, Tips and Abbreviations...
June 4, 2011 at 9:27 AM

We hope you're enjoying your time on CafeMom and on the 30 Something Moms group!

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We are always happy to help answer any questions and share tips on using the site.

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*For CafeMom FAQs, scroll down to the replies below.

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  • sheri305
    June 4, 2011 at 1:45 PM


  • Cafe Robin
    June 4, 2011 at 2:31 PM

    **Abbreviations (like:  dh, dd, piog, bump)- Scroll down to the next reply for a list of common abbreviations.

    **Signatures - Scroll down to the 3rd reply for Signature set up information.

    How do I add a Background to my page?
    To add a background, click on 'Privacy+Settings' at the very top of every page.  Then, on the left,  click on 'Customize Homepage'.    You can choose different layouts for your background and change the fonts and colors on your page.  There are many different widgets that you can add to your page, too.

    How do I set up my profile page?
    Profile Pages - Widget FAQs and Tips for Setting Up Your CafeMom Page

    How do I add friends?
    To send a friend invitation, go to someone's page and click on the "Invite as a friend" link under their picture.  Once the other Mom accepts your invitation, you will be friends!

    How do I add photos?
    If you want to add pictures to the photo section of your page
    , click on 'Add a Photo'.  You can set these photos for 'All' to see or for 'Friends only'.

    If you want to add photos to a post, click on the 'Add a photo' link above the text box, browse for a photo that you'd like to add and then click 'insert'. You may also be able to just copy and paste some pics right into the post.

    If you want to add more than 1 photo to a post, move the cursor below your 1st photo. Then, add the next picture the same way you added the 1st.

    You may also want to use the photo widgets available for your page:
    Photos and Slideshows.

    How do I change my avatar?
    To change your avatar (profile picture), go to your home page and click on the 'change my avatar' link under your current avatar.

    How do I add or change photos and info in the kids section?
    To add kids or change/delete any info about your kids on your profile, click on 'Privacy+Settings' (at the top of the page). Then click on 'Kids' on the left.
    To Add/Edit/Delete something, click on the rectangle in the Edit/Delete column next to that child and then make your changes. Be sure to 'Save' your changes when you're done.

    How do I keep track of group posts?
    Click on... My Posts and My Replies.
    These choices can be found by clicking on the Groups tab at the top of every page.

    How do I add a video to a group post?
    Click the 'Add a video' link above the text box when creating a post.
    Choose the tab for the type of video you are sharing.

    Paste the url for your video into the box and click on the 'insert' button.

    How do I add a poll to a post?
    For both Journal posts and Group posts, you can add a poll by clicking on the "Add a Poll" link. It is located just under the text box that you type in - in the bottom left corner.

    How do I add a link to my posts?
    Type what you'd like your clickable link to say and then highlight it. Next, click on the paperclip above the text box (to the left of 'add a sweetpea'). Paste the url in the url spot and then click 'Insert'.

    Another way to do it is to just copy and paste clickable links into your posts. For example, if you'd like to post a link to your group, click on 'my groups' then copy the clickable name of your group and paste it into your post.

    How do I leave a group after I join?
    To leave a group that you've joined, go to the group that you want to leave and click on the 'leave this group' option on the left. 
    You can also click 'privacy+settings' (above) - scroll down and click on the "X" next to the group that you want to leave.

    How do I delete a group that I started?
    To delete a group that you started, contact The CafeMom Team and they will take care of it for you! Just click Contact Us below.

    How do I change my screenname?
    Once you've created your screenname, it can't be changed. If you really want to change it, you can start a new account with the screenname you would prefer.

    How do I change my password?
    To change your password, click on 'privacy+settings' at the top of the page. Then, on the left, click on 'your basics'. You'll see an option to change your password.

    How do I use my chatterbox?
    If someone leaves you a note in your chatterbox, you can write back to them in their chatterbox or send them a private message. Some Moms have disabled their chatterboxes. You can chat with another member using the chatterboxes.

    How do I get to The CafeMom Marketplace?
    To visit the CafeMom Marketplace, click on the Share tab above and then click on Journals.  Scroll all the way down and you'll see Visit Marketplace on the right. That's where moms can post ads and promos.
    To post in The CafeMom Marketplace, check the CafeMom Marketplace box at the end of your Journal post.

    How do I contact CafeMom?
    Anytime you have a question, problem, or suggestion for CafeMom, feel free to click on the "Contact Us" link - at the very bottom of every page.

    For more FAQs, click here:
    CafeMom Frequently Asked Questions

  • Cafe Robin
    June 4, 2011 at 2:31 PM

    Some Common Abbreviations


    BUMP - Bring Up My Post!  When someone posts "bump" in a reply to a post, they are bringing the whole thread to the top of the group so more people will see it.  The posts on the group are in order of when the last reply was added.

    AC = Adopted Child
    AF = Aunt Flo
    AP= Attachment Parenting
    ATM = At the Moment
    AYT = Are You There
    BBL = Be Back Later
    BF = Boy Friend (also sometimes best friend, breast-feeding or breakfast, depending on context!!)
    BFN = Big Fat Negative
    BFP = Big Fat Positive
    BIL = Brother-In-Law
    BL = Belly Laugh
    BRB = Be Right Back
    BTW = By The Way
    CIO = Crying It Out
    CM = CafeMom
    CYL = Catch Ya' Later
    DD = Dearest Daughter, Darling Daughter, etc
    DF = Dear/Darling Fiance'
    DH = Dear Hubby (Or Husband), Darling Hubby, Darn Hubby, Dumb Hubby, etc
    DIKU = Do I Know You
    DS = Dearest Son, Darling Son, etc (can also mean Direct Sales)
    DSA = Direct Selling Association
    ETA = Estimated Time of Arrival or Edited To Add
    F2F = Face To Face
    FAQ = Frequently Asked Question
    FC = Foster Child
    FIL = Father-In-Law
    FF = Formula Feed or Forward Facing (car seat)
    FTW = For The Win
    FWIW = For What It's Worth
    GF = Girl Friend
    HTH = Hope That Helps
    IKWYM = I Know What You Mean
    IM = Instant Message
    IMHO = In My Humble/Honest Opinion
    IRL = In Real Life
    ISO = In Search Of
    ITA = I Totally Agree
    JK = Just Kidding
    JMO = Just My Opinion/Observation
    JUD = Jumping Up And Down
    KWIM = Know What I Mean
    LMAO = Laughing My A$$ Off
    LMBO = Laughing My Butt Off
    LO = Little One
    LOL = Laughing Out Loud or Lots Of Laughs
    MB = Message Board
    MD = Meltdown
    MIL = Mother-In-Law
    MIS/DS = Mom's In Sales Direct Selling
    NAD = Nursing At Desk
    NAK = Nursing At Keyboard
    OIC = Oh I See
    OMG = Oh My Gosh
    OP = Original Poster
    OT = Off Topic
    OTOH = On The Other Hand
    PIOG = Posted In Other Groups
    PITA = Pain In The Acronyms
    PM = Private Message
    POV = Point Of View
    PP = Previous Poster
    PTMM = Please Tell Me More
    RAK/DAK=Random Acts Of Kindness/Deliberate Acts Of Kindness
    RE = Rolling Eyes
    ROFL or ROTFL = Rolling On The Floor Laughing
    ROFLMBO = Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Butt Off
    SAH(M) =Stay At Home (Mom)
    SD = Step Daughter
    SIL = Sister-In-Law
    SMH = Shaking My Head
    SO = Significant Other
    S/O = Spin-off
    SS = Step Son
    STBX = Soon To Be Ex
    TIA = Thanks In Advance
    TFS = Thanks for Sharing
    TMI = Too Much Information
    TOM = Time Of The Month
    TTC = Trying To Conceive
    TTYL = Talk To You Later
    TY = Thank You
    WAH(M) = Work At Home (Mom)
    WOTH(M) = Work Outside the Home (Mom)
    WB = Welcome Back
    WTG = Way To Go

    WTH = What The Heck

  • Cafe Robin
    June 4, 2011 at 2:32 PM

    How do I add a signature to my posts?
    To create a signature, click on the 'privacy and settings' link on the top of the page. Then click on the signatures link on the left side of that page. Follow the instructions to add either a plain-text or rich-text signature to your account.

    How do I add a Ticker to my signature?
    If you'd like to add a ticker to your signature, try this...

    Go to the CafeMom Tickers page (or another ticker site) to make your timeline or ticker image. Copy the URL for your ticker and paste it somewhere so that you can paste it into your CafeMom signature later.

    Click on the 'privacy and settings' link on the top of the page. Then click on the 'signatures' link on the left side of that page.
    Click on the "Add A Rich Text Signature" button.
    Enter a name for the Signature.
    Click on the "Add a photo" button. A pop-up window will open.
    Click on the "Paste a URL" tab.
    Enter the URL of your ticker into the Image URL field. If you have already made a ticker, the ticker site should have given you the URL for it. You paste that URL in the box.
    When you're done, set your signature to default so it pops up automatically when you post.

    How do I add a Blinkie to my signature?
    If you'd like to add a blinkie to your signature, try this...
    Click on the 'privacy and settings' link on the top of the page. Then click on the signatures link on the left side of that page.
    Now open a new browser window. You'll have to come back to your CafeMom account in a bit.
    In the new browser window go to www.glitter-graphics.com (or www.blinkyou.com)
    (For this example we went to www.glitter-graphics.com and clicked on blinkies in the left column.)
    Choose your blinkie.
    On the preview page for your blinkie scroll down and click in the box with the HTML code.
    Copy that code (control + c).
    Return to your CafeMom account. You should still be on the add signature page.
    Paste the HTML code in the Signature Body box and click add.
    When you return to the signatures page at first you will only see the code that you pasted.
    To preview the blinkie click on the Edit this signature link.
    When you're done, set your signature to default so it pops up automatically when you post.

    How do I add more than 1 blinker, ticker or glitter text?
    To add multiple blinkies, tickers or glitter text graphics to your signature click enter after each code and paste the new code.

    How do I use the CafeMom Toolbar?
    The CafeMom Toolbar lets you add signatures and SweetPeas to any site on the internet, plus will keep you up to date on your CafeMom account. If someone sends you a message, adds a comment to a journal post, photo, or in your chatterbox, the toolbar will "light up" so you can click straight back to CafeMom to see what has been written.

    Here are some Cafemom Groups that help create Signatures...
    CafeMom Signature Groups

  • sweetsurprise13
    June 5, 2011 at 3:31 AM

    thanks so much for this!! woohoo for Robin!!

  • owensmom34
    June 5, 2011 at 11:44 AM

    Thanks so much!  This is very helpful!

  • KylesMom409
    June 5, 2011 at 3:20 PM
    Awesome Robin! :)
  • Stormy6669
    June 9, 2011 at 7:11 PM

    Very informative! Thanks.

  • Julie7220
    June 9, 2011 at 11:43 PM

    I need a Cafe Mom Mentor to help show me around, i'm not quite getting it on joining in on conversations and replying, thanks for your help!! Very new to this! Julie7220

  • Cafe Steph
    June 11, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    Hi! Welcome to the group! We'll have someone contact you to help. :)

    Quoting Julie7220:

    I need a Cafe Mom Mentor to help show me around, i'm not quite getting it on joining in on conversations and replying, thanks for your help!! Very new to this! Julie7220

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