I have been on cafemom for 4 years now, everyone in the family, knows I'm "addicted" so when my dd got pregnant... I told her to go to cafemom and which groups that would be good for her to get support......she's like " yeah ok mom" like she could care less, lol.
I got on her laptop to come to cafemom and she hadn't "logged out" off cafemom and now I know "who she is" and I told her I wasn't revealing my sn, just because I want privacy. And no I'm not going to "stalk" her, her groups are nothing that I have interest in and she shouldn't be interested in some of my groups, KWIM?
I have sons so no, none of them come here. Honestly, I don't tell ANYONE I know about CM. We all have FB together and I like having my own place to go and be myself without having to worry about people from my daily life running in to me here. If I had a daughter in law I would tell her about it but I'd make sure we didn't join any of the same groups, she should have her privacy.
I have mentioned to numerous people that I belong to an "online group" of "mothers with adult children." This includes both my kids, my parents, coworkers, etc. Suzee is NOT my name but of course I have my real picture up. I know last year Johnny told me his girlfriend googled a specific recipe (one of his childhood favorites) and google led her to right here to CafeMom and specifically to a post I had done right here in this group! I have since changed most of my settings to be a LOT more private - I guess my biggest concern is that the WB might somehow find me here too. My first name is rather unique and certainly a dead giveaway coupled with my picture! lol.
My middle daughter joined and got her older sister and me to join. We have been in several groups together but I don't care to be in the groups they are in now. Of course since my middle daughter is the mother of my 21 year old granddaughter she is a member of this group.