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Debate between mommy and daddy (mommy advice please!?!?!?!?!?)
August 11, 2013 at 2:46 PM

ok this might not be the right site to post this. 

me and my hisband have been in a debate for weeks now,

i have always heard it takes two to raise a child

well my husband says

ive been raising our 3 year old  by myself

any thoughts????


  • jmaw89
    by jmaw89
    August 11, 2013 at 3:00 PM
    Get a divorce?
  • Mom3152010
    August 11, 2013 at 3:08 PM

    Do you think the husband should be acting like that???

  • OliviaW.
    August 11, 2013 at 3:12 PM
    It takes two working together as one.

    I've also heard that it takes a village to raise a child.
  • Mom3152010
    August 11, 2013 at 3:14 PM

    my husband thinks it should just be me

  • BobKitten13
    August 11, 2013 at 3:19 PM
    It takes more than 2 working together. But sorry that shit wouldnt fly here. He either helps or i would be there. He had sex willingly to give you a baby right? Well it took both of you to makr that baby.
  • Mom3152010
    August 11, 2013 at 3:20 PM

    thank you!!!!!!

    im the only one working to raise our son

  • OliviaW.
    August 11, 2013 at 3:21 PM
    Why does he think that way? Are you a SAHM? What would happen if you're sick and can't care for the child?

    Most men for some reason feel that it should be the woman's job to raise the children but times are changing, there are more and more sahd now. I'm a SAHM so the bulk of the child raises falls to me but when my husband is home he's expected to help with the kids. When I'm sick he takes care of the kids too.

    Quoting Mom3152010:

    my husband thinks it should just be me

  • Mom3152010
    August 11, 2013 at 3:27 PM

    i am a sahm

    when im sick, i still have to take care of my son and when my husband is home he doesnt wanted to bother

  • Mom3152010
    August 12, 2013 at 1:33 PM

    thank you everyone for the advice and just listening to me

  • DevereuxTFC
    August 12, 2013 at 1:35 PM

      Seek counseling - together or individually. Perhaps your work has an EAP that will cover free consult ?  Don't let this drag on - good luck :)

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