I just got off of the phone with my ex's grandmother. We told her that we'd like to head down to visit with her this summer for a day or two and she called to say how excited she is about us coming. She just loves the kids and is so sweet to me. Always tells me she loves me. :)
So... do you still have a relationship with any of your ex's family?
I did when we first got divorced, they know he did me wrong and were all on my side, but in the end, family wins. His mom has slowly started being friends with the mistress he left for after she told me she hated her and couldnt stand her. His sister and I used to still talk but now she is buddies with the new chick too. So I just stopped talking to them. No drama, just a fade out. I still talk to his older kids tho. They live 12 hours away but we FB and text regularly.
Nope his dad died and his mom ran off and married some other man before he was cold. She was cheating on him and only wanted her dh life insurance money.
gee i wonder where the sperm donor learned to cheat?
I had a trip planned to take my daughter to visit "his" sister and her kids and "his" parents - they live 5 hours away. Everyone was happy and looking forward to the visit. Then this week he decided he didn't want me to go - and sabotaged it all. Everyone is very disappointed that he can't be a man. This is about my daughter and her getting time with her family. It has nothing to do with him - but once again he selfishly makes everything a drama about him.
So sad for my daughter. So sad for his parents who really wanted to see my daughter. They were so willing to have me visit. No one had a problem. We all get along.
What really pisses me off most is this, EVERY fucking holiday my family celebrates, HE INSISTS ON BEING THERE... he has ruined so many of my own family events due to his insistence on being there because he is "the dad" - well no more fuck-o!