I have a 3.5 yr old and I've been dating this guy, he came over while she was asleep in her room and we were having sex (in the dark) when she came in the room. I have no lock on my room door. We both laughed abt it, but I'm worried whathe may think about dating a single mom :-(
Since it has not happened before when she comes in your room, it may start to happen now since you have someone over now. You can start teaching her about privacy. Show her how to knock on the bathroom door when you are in there or when you are in your room. Talk to her about when someone goes in a room and closes the door especially bathroom and bedroom they are having their private moment and we all knock, wait for the person to say its OK to come into the room. If the guy does not understand cause he does not have kids, than he can be replaced if it continues to be a problem that he is not understanding of what children will do (I am sure he can remember being a kid himself)
I rent so I can't install a lock. :-(
this has never happened before, so I just hope it doesn't make things weird between me and the guy. He doesn't have any kids.
My child isn't alive yet but I've walked in on my mom having sex with a guy once. My 4 year old little brother picked the lock open with a butter knife and then screamed sat the guy to get off his mommy. LOL! I still remember and I was only 10, I sat in confusion why they were both naked on to of each other I thought he was hurting my mom and stood in shock, in a blank state of mind. Looking back, no wonder I'm so fucked up in the head.
Yep... He is 5. He walked in, and said "what are u doing?"... First thing i thought to say was "cuddling"... He said, "ive never seen anyone cuddle like THAT before"... Ugh. He hasnt mentioned anything since..