My ex said he was willing to sign over his rights to me but i know the court just doesn't grant it that easy. So is there anyway he could just say that i could have primary custody an him have visitation? And it's up to him whether he uses his visitation or not. I know the court looks at the best interest of the child an my ex a history of violence, damages to property an drug use an ADHD so could the court see that an give me primary? And If he's also willing to?