My ex was cheating on me with a girl and left his job and moved 2 hours away a month and a half after I moved out. I didnt start going on dates til 2 years later and was about 6 months after that I was in a relationship. You need to do what you feel is best for you. Moving in with someone or moving them in with you that soon I don't feel is healthy.
when the time is right for u....me and my daughters father broke up when i was 5 months pregnant...i started dating when my daughter was born....just one man. my daughter is 10 months old and me and that man are together and extremely happy...loves and respects me and my daughter and understands my daughter and her needs come first.
so whenever u feel u want to date go ahead. dont worry about anyone else's opinions. as long as your baby is taken care of and their needs come first then F everyone else...bc ppl WILL talk. lol
I waited a year to start dating again, I am now dating someone I have been friends with for a while and we are giving a romantic relationship a go. Since DD already knew him as "Mommys friend" from when we were just friends I don't have a problem having them around each other when we hang out.
It is up to you decide when you are ready. My husband cheated the entire time we were married, and took forever to give me my divorce. He got engaged the same year we got our divorce. I have been by myself since 2010 and no dates even though I am open. I am a very fun person and enjoy being around people, but I think God has a sign on me that says "Do Not Enter!!" I have not been approached by anyone...makes me sad sometimes.