How do you learn to allow yourself to give your child to his father for visitation? My sons father is most likely going to go to Parental Guidence and I'm not sure how it's gonna go or how things will happen. But I know for sure that he has no child raising experience, he lives with his mom and new gf and their house is very cluttered and dirty. Hazardous in my opinion. They don't own anything right now that could even remotely take care of the child and he thinks he can do this? I think not. I see him becoming VERY overwhelmed with him and I fear what could happen. He wouldn't hurt his son, but I really don't see how he can take care of him. He's never even changed a diaper.. My son is 6 weeks old and his father has only seen him twice. He blames me for that. I live 25 miles away, full time mom, I do online college and I work pt. His father does nothing but smoke pot all day... He says he's going to go back to school and get a job but he's been saying that for almost a year now.. I just can't get over the fact of ever leaving my son alone with him. How do you ladies do it? Is there something I should know about how child support and Parental Guidence works? I just wanna hear some similar stories about it all. It's been stressing me out a bit.
tell him if he wanbts to see the kid either do the work or take you to court. if hes not serious about it, he wont. you dont need to do the legwork for him.
Well, he was really only with me for the sex. He had 9 months to figure things out and he never did. I did it all on my own. He never even wanted to be with me.... I want him to be involved but he doesn't even try. He wants me to do it all and I can't. He won't even try to come to my place to see him. Yet it's all my fault that he doesn't see him. That's BS in my book
Why get with him if you don't want him around a child he created with you?
He has rights to his son and till he messes up, I doubt that will be changing.