My ex hubby and I have been divorced going on 4 years now. About a year and a half ago he got remarried. He's always been kind of an ass, but after he got remarried he turned into a bigger one as his wife doesn't help either. She sticks her nose in where it don't belong in things such as telling my son he can't go to his grandparents all the time or for a school project my son was suppose to bring in pictures if his family. Well thy week he was with his dad, and the pictures he brought in where mainly of her family...her brothers, dad, and grandparents. I don't believe that her family should have anything to do with my son. I understand that she's his step mom, but that's it, she has no decision making authority what's so ever. Anybody have any suggestions on what to do about this?
Typical jackass dad. I had to deal with it with my son's dad and stepmom and my best friend is still dealing with it with her ex and his new wife. Men, a lot of times, have no balls when it comes to dealing with the wife being a bitch about kids from a previous relationship. My son's dad let the wife go on a MAJOR power trip for a while but thankfully she chilled out once she had her own child with him. My best friend hasn't been so fortunate. He ex continues to let his current wife dictate his relationship with his son and it's awful to watch.
The thing I had to do was PRAY tons for protection over my son. I also prayed for the stepmom and also prayed that God would change my heart toward her. I resented her for how she treated me and so I needed to let it go on my end. It wasn't easy and didn't happen overnight.
I'm going to be devils advocate but she is family to him now which makes her family your child's as well. Embrace that there are more people that love your child don't be angry that people care about your kid blood doesn't mean everything