My ex left me when I got pregnant, but stayed in my sons life until about a month ago. I've had an AMAZING boyfriend for the past 2 years and we have a little girl on the way.. And my ex had this "amazing" girlfriend for the past year. Well when he walked out of my sons life last month it was because "he couldn't handle being a father. it was just too much" Well his girlfriends bestfriend is also my friend.. And she had told me today that my ex's girlfriend is pregnant.. But that's not the best part.. It's twins!.. What's he gonna do now? pay3 child supports? HA! I'm sorry if you think this is immature of me but I had to share it with the rest of you, I almost peed my pants laughing when I heard this!
My ex walked out on our two kids because I refused to abort second one. Swore he never wanted more.... fast forward to 5 yrs later and he and new wife had a son. He has been an awesome dad to that son which is a double edge sword. I would never want another child to go through what my kids have but I (and my kids) are jealous of the fact he can be so involved with "new" family while my kids are still ignored. He sees them maybe six times a year and lives less than 10 miles away. Even when we tried 50/50 he ignored my boys and/or ridiculed me the whole time.