No matter if you meet them in person or online, they're all selfish, using, liars. I tried Okcupid.com and pof.com. I am now, talking to 2 people from pof.com, so far ok, but I'm waiting for the dumb time-waisting bull shit. Mem are men no matter where you find them.
I actually met my late dh online back in '01. We ended up being together 10yrs before he passed away. Thought I'd give it another shot so I tried Zoosk & the guy was wanting me to send him pics & skype after only an hour or two of messaging back and forth & I had made it clear that I wanted to take things insanely slow (its been well over 10yrs since I last dated lol). I got a bad vibe from him & got pissy with me when I told him that I wasn't ready for that. Deleted that profile quick lol
I've been on POF for a few days and I gotta say, I am talking to a few guys that seem nice enough. Aren't afraid of answering all the questions I ask & understand that I want to take things slow. Not impatient if I don't respond right away, and don't mind talking about their kids or whether the site is legit or not lol Just taking things slow & keeping my guard up since I have 2 dd's that I have to look out for as well :)