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I need help my son went to his dads for the holiday, his first christmas with his father. The entire time he was there his dad girlfriend said nothing to him but when he was getting ready to leave the girlfriend and dad got in to a arugment and she turns to my 5 year old and says thats why your mother and your grandmother is a ugly B@%t&h she said this to my 5 year old I am beyond pissed and I really need opinions should i say something to her or let it go.
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This. I would talk to your ex and be sure he knows your not happy with your son being put in the middle like that.
Quoting conniejo75:
You can't with hold visitation due to something she said. Just make sure to remind your son that even adults say mean things and that it is not ok to say mean things.
Quoting indepedentk:
yes and I asked his dad he said it was true my son will never go over there again
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I would first give yourself time to calm down and once you have done that, you need to sit down with your ex and his gf and explain to both but to her especially that using such language in front of your child or even worse directed towards your child is unacceptable and if she continues to do it, that you will report her for child abuse and she can suffer the consequences of it. I'm not sure if you can report her but you can least "threat" her in and she may wise up.