this is the worst part about my separation. my kids went way friday night, and i was a bit lonely but i had a friend over and we just hung out and watched some movies. went to bed and i slept great. picked up my kids saturday and had an ok day. saturday evening and sunday were bad days. i spent a good portion of my time in my room crying.
i'm happy with my decision, but the lonliness is truly killing me. i can't stand it!
by Ali5683November 27, 2012 at 2:56 PM
Find ways to distract yourself. Find a hobby. You need to find something to look forward to when your kids are not with you. Start going to the gym, take a class, crafting, etc.
by mmeredithNovember 27, 2012 at 3:02 PM
I know how you feel and I'm married. I would find a hobby, I wish I had of when I was seperated.
by LifeCafe42November 27, 2012 at 3:42 PMWelcome!!!
November 27, 2012 at 7:55 PMIts gonna take sometime for you to adjust to your new life. Just look at it as a new beginning. With plenty of opportunities to find happiness again. In the mean time try to find a new hobby etc.
November 27, 2012 at 9:38 PM
you can always go to that website "pof". ive heard success stories there from pregnant women.
I'm not trying to sell on anything, I'm just saying, it's an experience I've had.
by MamaveltDecember 8, 2012 at 3:38 PMI used to call them my "time out" weekend because I felt like I was being punished. So sorry- I know how hard and depressing it can be