I have met a lot of new guys after my separation and I have not really given any of them a chance. Well I met this guy 2 Weeks ago and w had this instant connection. We have been on 3 dates and each one has turned into an all night thing. When I hear his voice I can't help but smile really big, can't wait to to see him when we are apart I get all giggly and a big part of me says give it a try and the other part of me is terrified beyond belief
That sounds like the way it went between myself and my boyfriend. I mean, he started out as my best friend but thats how I feel when I'm around him and hear from him. We are still going strong after almost 5 months. :) And I completely understand about feeling terrified.
I felt that way when I first started dating after my divorce, I would give myself a peep talk . The way I saw it , if this guy was making me happy and even if it was short term it was worth it because he may turn out to be Mr. Right. And if it did end, it wouldn't be worse then the end of my marriage, no other end of a relationship would hurt as much as that did and I survived it so I knew I was strong enough to deal with anything else that life could throw at me. So enjoy the best you can and forget about thinking to far ahead, the moment is now so make yourself happy.
Jump girl,,,,,jump. I did. I have no regretts. There are few bumbs but we are growing together and adjusting. We complete each others sentences, we are together all possible times....children get along well. So Wonderful.
Ah Jeez, I'll try and keep this short. I was in a similar situation too.
My ex was an abusive narcissistic asshole and a half. He turned me off relationships so much, some one would look at me and I'd growl. But then an old friend and I hung out one night. After that night, we started texting everyday, and hanging out. He made me feel like a giddy idiotic school girl.
Then my ex demolished our relationship (loooooong story) and we didn't talk for a year. I was heartbroken. I thought about him all damn day. Everyday. It was sickening.
Exactly a year later, he calls me and says he needs to see me. Hearing his voice made me melt all over again. We met up and shortly picked up where we left off. Still going strong.
He STILL makes me smile like a loon when I hear his voice. His hugs alone make me what to jump his bones, and I LOVE that butterfly feeling when he's calling me or writing me letters. I still get that dopey-eyed stare when he says he misses me and can't wait to be with me. It's effin awesome!
The point is, give it a try. You never know what you may have missed if you pass it by. It could be something really great happening here. I think it's something special when a guy can make you genuinely feel like a teenager again. Best of luck! I hope this is your special one! So sorry this is so damn long!