i have 3 kids, and 2 dads. only 1 is involved. i've been single for over a year now (including the nookie). part of me is like YES, but the other half is like Ahhh! there is so much more to being single. i have less stress and i don't have to worry about caring for another child. plus there is entirely to many std's, etc, out there. i am more concerned at making sure that i am in A-1 status if i ever decide to get with someone. i can't say married that is far down the life line of thought for me. raising 3 alone is hard, but i am taking it one day at a time.