Single Moms
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Yup! It sucks. But I'm letting myself feel the emotions from it. Either that or I'm starting to get depressed & idk it.. But it really sucks
Quoting PaperClip811:
:( fucking liars
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Not all states require that. Some just ask if divorced and date of last marriage
Quoting michiganmom5150:
Did he lie on your marriage certificate? You have to put how many previous marriages.
Quoting HyperMom38:
I know how this feels. My ex told me I was his 2nd wife and that he had no children from his first marriage. Turns out I was the 5th wife and he has a son with his 4th wife that he does not claim, but the law says is his. It feels so bad because you want this child to be as special to their dad as they are to you, but when you find out that this is NOT the Dad's first kid it takes all the "special" right out of it. I'm sorry you are going through this- you deserve better and so does your child.
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We don't even have to show divorce papers.... just sign that we certify we are not legally married or in a domestic partnership
Quoting HyperMom38:
We were never asked how many times either of us had been married before, just "if" either of us had been. He said yes and the clerk asked for the divorce papers. (For him- he has no problem answering only the exact question asked, even though he knows it is essentially a lie.) I found out because I met one of his friends from his hometown and he outed my ex about the # of times he had been married. The court sent paperwork asking for him to support his son from the last marriage after I was pregnant with DD and that's how I found about his first child. Men are such lying dogs!
Quoting michiganmom5150:
Did he lie on your marriage certificate? You have to put how many previous marriages.
Quoting HyperMom38:
I know how this feels. My ex told me I was his 2nd wife and that he had no children from his first marriage. Turns out I was the 5th wife and he has a son with his 4th wife that he does not claim, but the law says is his. It feels so bad because you want this child to be as special to their dad as they are to you, but when you find out that this is NOT the Dad's first kid it takes all the "special" right out of it. I'm sorry you are going through this- you deserve better and so does your child.
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Yup, had the same thing happen. And he has ditched all of us, working under the table and moving states. Found out through public record he has a son -
*hugs* dont let it get you down. Focus on that beautiful baby boy. I became friends with my BDs ex wife so DS gets to see his half sibiling. Sometimes it's tough because BD's a worse father to his 1st born than he is to our son... but Im glad they know who each other are, since they wouldnt if it were only up to BD.
Quoting Teenmommy1119:
Yup! It sucks. But I'm letting myself feel the emotions from it. Either that or I'm starting to get depressed & idk it.. But it really sucks
Quoting PaperClip811:
:( fucking liars
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I'm trying not to. But I'm overly emotional & I honestly don't know why. It's weird... But I wish that would happen for my son!
Quoting PaperClip811:
*hugs* dont let it get you down. Focus on that beautiful baby boy. I became friends with my BDs ex wife so DS gets to see his half sibiling. Sometimes it's tough because BD's a worse father to his 1st born than he is to our son... but Im glad they know who each other are, since they wouldnt if it were only up to BD.
Quoting Teenmommy1119:
Yup! It sucks. But I'm letting myself feel the emotions from it. Either that or I'm starting to get depressed & idk it.. But it really sucks
Quoting PaperClip811:
:( fucking liars
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Ahhh weird same thing over here.. He got fired from his job & now idk how he makes his ends meet. & still manages trips to AC to drink & stay in fancy hotels.
Quoting Singlemominit:
Yup, had the same thing happen. And he has ditched all of us, working under the table and moving states. Found out through public record he has a son -
He lives with his grand parents lol
Quoting Teenmommy1119:
Ahhh weird same thing over here.. He got fired from his job & now idk how he makes his ends meet. & still manages trips to AC to drink & stay in fancy hotels.
Quoting Singlemominit:
Yup, had the same thing happen. And he has ditched all of us, working under the table and moving states. Found out through public record he has a son -
Stoppp! Omg that's terrible how old is he?
Quoting Singlemominit:
He lives with his grand parents lol
Quoting Teenmommy1119:
Ahhh weird same thing over here.. He got fired from his job & now idk how he makes his ends meet. & still manages trips to AC to drink & stay in fancy hotels.
Quoting Singlemominit:
Yup, had the same thing happen. And he has ditched all of us, working under the table and moving states. Found out through public record he has a son -
Hugs mama idk how that feels however my ex tells people his daughter is dead. No she's alive and well he just didn't want to ne a dad!!