My oldest his dad left when he found out I was pregnant and never heard from him again. When I think about it it is so much nicer with the guy gone at least in my case. I get to raise my oldest how I want to, dress him in what I want, get his hair cut how I want, and so on. On the other hand with my youngest his dad is a pain and loves to do things just to spit me. He is use to people backing down from him but I won't and refuse to. I don't play nice with a slim ball worthless dead beat dad who does things to me just to see if I get mad or not. Anyways so yes I find raising my oldest on my own is way better than dealing with a baby daddy drama.
Do you have a situation like this? Or even two different dads for ur kids and the guys act way different than each other?
I am thankful that I have a great kid that doesn't mind its just me raising him and he knows his younger brother has a dad but doesn't care. Gotta love the kids!