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lillmorgan
how do i cope......
October 8, 2012 at 10:26 PM

Hi i am trying to cope with the fact that my baby daddy only takes one of his kids and i feel so bad about it. My baby daddy dont see my 3 year old offten and he never wants to stay with his dad and i feel like a bad mom when i leave him there. I mean his dad isnt a bad dad i just dont think he trys enough. Idk i got so many feeling that go thru my mind and it drives me crazy. I just dont understand them and i want to so bad. I realy would like some one to talk to about babby daddy isusses with i think it might help me out a bit.

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  • Sweet_Carol_126
    October 8, 2012 at 10:45 PM

    YOU didn't explain about him taking one kid, you said he doesn't take the 3 year old often.  What child does he take?  Is it an older child?  is it your child or one he has with someone else?  Do you think that he is unpleasant to the 3 year old?   You probably do need to talk to someone.  You might check with welfare to see about talking to a psychologist so you can get your feelings out and see what is suggested.  3 year olds often don't want to leave mom.  Is that all it is.  Does the child come home with bruises or anything on him? 

  • LifeCafe42
    October 8, 2012 at 11:58 PM

    Welcome!  can you explain a bit more?

  • Robsessed98
    October 10, 2012 at 8:15 PM
    Welcome to the group. Why does he not take the 3 y/o? I think we need more info before we can give you any advice.
  • bamababe1975
    October 11, 2012 at 1:51 PM

     That is weird that he never takes the 3yo. Has he ever said why he won't take him? Is the 3yo not pottytrained and he'd just rather not deal with that, or is there something else going on?


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  • steviechick
    October 12, 2012 at 2:39 PM

    Bump for more advice.

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