Turn on any movie or television show and you'll quickly be
inundated with the idea that if you don't have a romantic relationship, there's clearly something wrong with
you and you're going to end up sitting alone at weddings without a Plus One for
the rest of your life.
It's not true.
And it's also not a good idea to jump into a relationship if you're simply
not ready for one. So how do you know if you should take the leap? Let's find
out some signs that you're NOT ready for a relationship
1) You're miserable, unhappy with your situation in life. If you try to jump
into a relationship while you're depressed, chances are you're going to attract
the wrong type of partner. Happiness comes from within.
2) Like it or not, you're still in love with your ex.
3) You're too busy working on your own life to devote any time to anyone
4) You find yourself attracted over and over to the wrong guys, in a
subconscious way to sabotage the relationship before it begins.
I experienced a similar situation last year but I talked my issues with someone I trusted and worked through them. You have to ask god to help you through it and move on because he has. It's easier said then done but stay strong and in time you will heal. You can reply to this message if you want to talk about this further.
I needed to read this right now. Its not me trying to get into another relationship. All my friends keep trying to hook me up. I told them im not ready. I need my life together. Right when i said that my ex boyfriend text after two weeks wants to know if i want to see a pic of him naked. How sick is that. I blew up! His brother called ME making threats. Unreal!!! I had to file a police report and change my # friday. I'm so not wanting a relationship!