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Cafe AmyS
Single & Pregnant 101
December 22, 2011 at 3:01 PM

This post is a place for us to share advice, questions and personal stories about being a pregnant single mom.  

 

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  • Dealing with a break-up while pregnant
  • Pregnancy & dating
  • Single and chosing to become a partnerless parent
  • Thoughts on abortion
  • Telling the father

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  • danny_007
    Today at 4:09 PM
    Okay so i really dont know where to start... I had gotten pregnant shortly after i turned 19 my ex an i was in a serious relationship an had planned to get married an have our family we were trying. I had moved out but we werr still yogether the moment i found out i was pregnant he changed. He didnt seem to care. He dynied that the kid was his cuz i went out with my friends 1 time. When i got told my due date aug 6 him an his family told me that my conception date was in sept. Which was impossible cuz in oct i took a blood pregnancy test at the doc an it was neg. An he was there when they told me that i wasnt an i had a period a week later as well. So now hes been dating this girl that i dont like at all. He seems to have gotten worse. His attutide an his respect level has just gone down hill. I havent had our son yet an im scared whats to come after hes born. I feel like its wrong to want my ex back after everything an i miss everything about him as well im just not sure what to do.
  • Cafe AmyS
    Today at 4:21 PM

    Hi!

    First, why would you want to take back a man who has treated you like this and second, who taught that family math?  Pregnancy is 9 months, not 11.  ;)

    After your son is born, you need to file for child support as well as sole custody (with or without visitation).  You may also need to have a paternity test done to prove that this man really is the baby's daddy.

    Quoting danny_007:

    Okay so i really dont know where to start... I had gotten pregnant shortly after i turned 19 my ex an i was in a serious relationship an had planned to get married an have our family we were trying. I had moved out but we werr still yogether the moment i found out i was pregnant he changed. He didnt seem to care. He dynied that the kid was his cuz i went out with my friends 1 time. When i got told my due date aug 6 him an his family told me that my conception date was in sept. Which was impossible cuz in oct i took a blood pregnancy test at the doc an it was neg. An he was there when they told me that i wasnt an i had a period a week later as well. So now hes been dating this girl that i dont like at all. He seems to have gotten worse. His attutide an his respect level has just gone down hill. I havent had our son yet an im scared whats to come after hes born. I feel like its wrong to want my ex back after everything an i miss everything about him as well im just not sure what to do.


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