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he asked our children what? update at bottom
March 29 at 5:33 PM
Ok my ex husband and I have 3 boys together. This year they flew out to spend a week with him for spring break. The boys just flew back home today, well we are cuddling watching a veggie tales movie and our oldest who is 6 tuned to me and said "mommy guess what daddy aasked us"
My reply was "what did daddy ask you?"
Then i could not believe what he said." Daddy asked if we'd be sad if you died"
Really? Are you kidding me?
Then our 5 year old said "daddy asked me too"

Omg I'm furious

for those of you who keep asking why don't I call him I have stated and replies that my ex husband has my phone number blocked and does not reply to text message. I do not have his email address, he does not call to talk to the kids while they are with me. He refuses to communicate with me. The only time he calls his kids or when they are spending one weekend a month with his mother. it is set up in her divorce packet that he sees the kids every other Christmas 1 month forsummer and spring break. I have filed paperwork with the court for contempt for not allowing me to speak to the kids while they are with him I will also be bringing this up in our court hearing. We have been divorced for 3 years now, so it's not like we are in the middle of a custody battle.

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  • MissMandaz
    March 29 at 5:43 PM
    :/
  • MissMandaz
    March 29 at 5:43 PM
    Kids say the darndest things some times *shrugs*
  • Kitana8185
    March 29 at 5:44 PM
    Oh my that's terrible, why would he even think to ask that...
  • higgbreck
    March 29 at 5:45 PM
    Wow. That's.... scary.
  • ilovemykids323
    March 29 at 5:45 PM

     whhhhy on earth would he ask them that

  • RyansMommy7507
    March 29 at 5:47 PM
    I just can't understand why anyone would ask children that
  • withsecond
    March 29 at 6:06 PM
    Wow. I'd be on the phone asking him what made him think that was an okay thing to ask his children. Wtf...
  • Senile-felines
    March 29 at 6:09 PM
    I agree!

    Quoting withsecond: Wow. I'd be on the phone asking him what made him think that was an okay thing to ask his children. Wtf...
  • cmjustice
    March 29 at 6:11 PM
    Maybe it was taken out of context? Did someone pass away? When a kid in Luke's class's mom passed away, I asked him the same thing.
  • RyansMommy7507
    March 29 at 6:38 PM
    No, no one has passed away on either side within the last 3 year's.

    Quoting cmjustice: Maybe it was taken out of context? Did someone pass away? When a kid in Luke's class's mom passed away, I asked him the same thing.

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