We all know that the cooking, cleaning, and laundry doesn't do itself. So who picks up the slack when you're having a bad day and call it quits? Does the whole household come to an abrupt stop for a day or two until you're back on your feet? Does your DH/SO chip in? Do you have older kids that can takeover?
My husband will help of i ask him to, but not just on his own lol. Kids don't help, my 11 year old gets grounded constantly for not doing his chores or taking 2 hours to wipe his bathroom down and still leaving half of it messy and fighting me the whole way thru it. Other son its too young to help (1)
Nobody. If I ever get hit by truck my household us colossally screwed. DH doesn't do squat unless asked...repeatedly...and even then other than dishes or taking out the trash...not gonna happen. He doesn't vaccume. We lived here 2.5 years and he's never once cleaned a bathroom or changed sheets. When he brought home the stomache virus I specifically planned a crock pot meal for 48 hrs later so when I got it they'd have dinner without me having to actually cook it.
My house goes to hell when I have those days! lol I was actually just thinking about this as I sit in bed in horrible pain for the 3rd day and the several meals worth of meat I bought on sale sits in my fridge waiting to be repackaged. The same meat that my DF promised that he would repackeage for me since I was hurting so bad. There is also laundry piling up, dishes piling up and my living room is in chaos! I'm hoping to be back to normal tomorrow because my house can't take much more!
This past summer I had a series of accidents that completely incapacitated me, and dh really stepped up to the plate. He took care of me, the house, (sort of) and the child. But once I was on my feet, I was on my own again.