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Would you forgive your SO... *edit*
January 9 at 9:35 PM
If he cheated on you?

My boyfriend confessed to cheating on me yesterday. We have a 2 year old little girl together. I have no clue what to do right now, just like in a state of shock right now. His reason was, "I love being with you, but the sex isn't enjoyable." I'm just so torn, part of me wants to give him another chance, and the other part is disgusted every time I see him.

**Edit** I decided to forgive him, and we are taking it slow. He has drastically chranged and making strides to redeem himself. This is his last chance and of he does it again, I am done. Thank you all for the kind words.

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  • AromaDrops33
    January 9 at 9:39 PM
    I could never forgive him.....ever.
  • lesalmi
    by lesalmi
    January 9 at 9:40 PM
    While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
  • ana.rivera9812
    January 9 at 9:42 PM
    Dnt think i could ever forgive him buht then again u never noe until ur in the situation i am so sorry to hear that
  • StormiAnn
    January 9 at 9:43 PM
    I agree with her! How hurtful of him to say :'(

    Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
  • queenamy
    January 9 at 9:45 PM


    Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.

    my  thoughts exactly

  • _abeauty92
    January 9 at 9:48 PM
    I agree with her.

    Quoting StormiAnn: I agree with her! How hurtful of him to say :'(



    Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
  • cLanief
    by cLanief
    January 9 at 9:50 PM
    Hell fucking no! Especially after his reasoning. That means he will most likely always cheat. Kick him in the balls and run!!!!
  • korra2013
    January 9 at 9:50 PM
    I have forgiven cheating but that comment.. he would be out the door. Don't get me wrong cheating isn't ok but I'm no saint either

    Quoting lesalmi: While I may have forgiven cheating... I wouldn't forgive that comment. If it's not enjoyable he will continue to do it.
  • momma2b2008
    January 9 at 9:50 PM
    Nope, but I would pack his shit for him.
  • amanda.lyn
    January 9 at 9:55 PM
    Nope...

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