My boyfriend has a baby by me (she will be here soon) and a baby by someone else. But he lives with her at his family's house. In two different bed rooms. And I live with my mom. He always tells me he wants to live with me but has not tried to even find a place of his own. What should I do?.
Yeah if he's not making an effort for you, but has his ex actually living with him (which is making an effort for her & their child) then I'd have to say you messed up with this one girl. The whole situation sounds like a headache. But good luck though!
He is either trying to be a good person so that she has somewhere to live (which will not change until she gets a job and a place, which will most likely be no time soon). Or he is not that into you. Have you ever been around his family? How often is he with you? Does he have a job, go to your doctors appts? I'm not trying to be mean, just honest.