Hey everyone I have a question I hope someone can help me my sister will be 28 weeks pregnant on tuesday and over the weekend she messes up and relased and done a couple pain pills and smoked a little weed and now she is very scared that when the baby is born he is going to test positive for these things I just wanted to no if anyone could tell me if she stays clean for the rest of her pregancy will her and the baby tset negative I hope someone can help me thank u all very much
id dont think they check for that . but more importantly how did she not realize? she messed up as in she did that on purpose. id be more concern with her lack of ability to control her drug use then if she gets caught. I hope it scared her straight. i hope the baby is ok.. & i hope it really was that one mess up. its not IF she stays clean she HAS to. there's a baby HER baby & your neice or nephew is in there.. growing.. please PLEASE make sure that poor baby is being cared for.. she is alrady a mommy its time to grow up.
She made a mistake and she knows that and she is a great mother already and the baby is fine she is just worried that the baby will have it in his system but she has not done any since and does not plan on doing any more
U don't no her and none of yall have right to judge her she is a great mother and yall act like yall r perfect well guess what stupid ppl I'm sure yall have made mistakes to so if yall r going to judge then don't even read what I put thank u very much
I don't need to know her to know a pregnant woman should not be taking pain pills and smoking weed. That is not being a "great mother." If you don't want people's opinions, why did you post? Were you expecting applause?
there's a big difference bw havinga few drinks or something before you know you are pregnant and popping pills and weed when you are almost in your third trimester.
How do you just make a mistake with that? Did she wake up and just ' forget' she was pregnant? Give us a break - she made a conscious decision to do something risky that might affect her unborn child and now she' sounds more like she is worried about a test being positive (and her getting in trouble) than any damage it might have done to the baby.
Sorry, but in my book, that is NOT something a great mom does. A great mom wouldn't have put herself in this position in the first place
well I would say I don't think it would be in either systems when she has the baby as long as she doesn't do it anymore.
You really need to help her or get her some help that shit isn't cool. If she relapsed while pregnant what do you think will happen after she has the baby and possibly gets put on meds after birth. Tell her to get herself in counseling now.
it should not affect the baby if it is a one time deal but she needs to let her doctor know of the slip up so they can make sure it will not happen again. Very few people "plan"on making these kinds of mistakes especially while pregnant. There must have been a trigger point for her to use drugs.