what if your SO spanked you on the butt ( not in a playful way lol) but bc he was upset with you & calmy spanked you telling you what you did was wrong & then discussed it with you...? is that abuse? or discipline?
LOL its a SPIN OFF post to spanking.. no this is NOT my dh or my situtation. I thoguht it was pretty obvious only like 2 of you knew it was a spin off.
im discussing the idea of you being hit by someone & spaning your kid.. its abusive if it happens to us as adults but a kid, a younger , smaller being its " spanking" and disipline to some.. im curious to hear any responses.
again NO this is not dh he never has or would lay a hand on me.. unless playfully of course lol
no grown man should ever take that chance! if it was playfull and for fun, FINE!! but, because he "was upset with me"..NO! i am a grown ass woman! i do not need to be spanked, cuz my husband didnt agree with me on something!!!