my daughter had her baby at 26 wks along baby weighing 1lb 14oz she is in the nicu has been for 2 1/2 months now weighs a whopping 5lb .... the dad has denied her all thru the pregnancy n when came time for baby to come he was in the game went to hospital whole nine was goin to see her semi reg for a couple wks then stopped goin all together for a month n half or better sent his mom to babys hospital room in the nicu today with a home preg test she swabs babys mouth n says she already swabbed her sons that morn ....would this upset you am i the only one that finds this tad bit uncalled for....time n place way off n isnt the dad suppose to come and do it at the same time infront of a wittness???? opinions welcome advice needed cuz im heated!!!!
I wouldn't trust the father's mother..not 1 bit. You can go to court and petition a DNA test, which I'd do. Then when it comes out that he's the father, your dd can sue him for support. (understand she'll have to give visitation)
I'd be pissed. Have your daughter petition the courts for a DNA test and if it comes back positive just be aware that the father can gain visitation rights to the child. Good luck and hope baby gets better and gets to go home soon. I was also a preemie-in the NICU for 7 months.
He waited until the baby was healthier...he wants to make sure that the baby is his before getting emotionally involved...I don't blame him one bit for that, if there is a question..Sure he could have gone about it a different way, but the act of getting DNA, and wanting to know...shouldn't make you mad!
No matter what who tells you, trust that there may be a valid reason for his suspicion that the baby is not his. Your daughter may not be the perfect angel she says she is. I find it a bit strange that she would do his DNA test for him however, he may not have wanted the confrontation between the two of you.
It is wise of him to ensure the child is his before getting further involved. In essence, he is doing your end of the work for you.