I've been noticing my SO laying his head on my lap more and more...or i'll be laying down on the couch and he will come up with me and use my butt as his pillow lol.
I've never had an SO do this...i grew up with my dad doing this with my mom all the time, i always thought it was cute but never put much thought into it...but now that i have an SO that does it to me, im wondering.
Mine doesnt just due to it not being comfortable. I have had friends do it though with me which was odd since they had a gf at the time . Now the cat or child are on my lap or use my butt as their pillow.
My so does it a lot or when we are in bed my boobs are is pillow I think its just like a pillow it's a comfort thing .. That's y I lay my head on his lap when I wanna take a nap and not want to the bed lol
A comfort/security thing? I dunno, but maybe because when they (most) were little they drew comfort from their mom doing it and now they get that some loved feeling from doing it with you? My DH used to do it with me..but now the minute he tried DS climbs on us lol