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alecolby
is it just me?
May 7, 2013 at 6:11 PM
I'm starting to feel like I'm not a very good person to be friends with. I know, i know very negative thoughts. Just seems like i talk to someone and it doesn't last very long. Is it just me? Am i doing something wrong?

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  • lcappytan05
    May 7, 2013 at 6:14 PM
    Nobody is going to be able to tell you without knowing you personally...kwim?
  • frndlyfn
    May 7, 2013 at 6:18 PM

    I have this same feeling.  I have never been able to maintain a long friendship.  I think in part for me, i moved so much as a child, i never developed that skill fully within myself.  Friendships usually take work just like any other relationship.

  • alecolby
    May 7, 2013 at 6:22 PM
    Its hard when only one of you is working on it


    Quoting frndlyfn:

    I have this same feeling.  I have never been able to maintain a long friendship.  I think in part for me, i moved so much as a child, i never developed that skill fully within myself.  Friendships usually take work just like any other relationship.


  • frndlyfn
    May 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM

    Yes  I have had to learn how to let go when the other person seems to have given up rather than push the issue.


    Quoting alecolby:

    Its hard when only one of you is working on it


    Quoting frndlyfn:

    I have this same feeling.  I have never been able to maintain a long friendship.  I think in part for me, i moved so much as a child, i never developed that skill fully within myself.  Friendships usually take work just like any other relationship.




  • alecolby
    May 7, 2013 at 6:34 PM
    I think i need to learn to do that


    Quoting frndlyfn:

    Yes  I have had to learn how to let go when the other person seems to have given up rather than push the issue.



    Quoting alecolby:

    Its hard when only one of you is working on it





    Quoting frndlyfn:

    I have this same feeling.  I have never been able to maintain a long friendship.  I think in part for me, i moved so much as a child, i never developed that skill fully within myself.  Friendships usually take work just like any other relationship.







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