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Pam74033
Meeting the kids...
May 6, 2013 at 10:58 PM
So I have been dating this guy for about a month. Tomorrow night I'm meeting his 2 15 yr old daughters. I'm so anxious ...any advice?

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  • KendallsMommee
    May 6, 2013 at 11:01 PM
    Be yourself. Don't try too hard to be liked. And don't show any displays of affection towards their Dad in front of them.

    Good luck!
  • alexsmomaubrys2
    May 6, 2013 at 11:01 PM

    Why so soon?

  • hugss
    by hugss
    May 6, 2013 at 11:18 PM

    I agree .. be yourself & make it as causal as possible ,
    Good luck & Let us know how it goes ;)

  • Pam74033
    May 6, 2013 at 11:47 PM
    Well he has them full time and I have my DD full time so finding time without all of them is sometimes an issue. He usually from what I understand doesn't rush into things but he asked so Ofcourse I accepted.


    Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

    Why so soon?


  • Pam74033
    May 6, 2013 at 11:49 PM
    Thank you that's good advice. I have been giving it some thought.
  • ScrChk23
    May 7, 2013 at 7:58 PM
    Don't try too hard to be their friend or be mushy with their dad.
  • ScrChk23
    May 7, 2013 at 7:59 PM
    How old is your DD? Is she going too?

    Quoting Pam74033:

    Well he has them full time and I have my DD full time so finding time without all of them is sometimes an issue. He usually from what I understand doesn't rush into things but he asked so Ofcourse I accepted.




    Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

    Why so soon?


  • ruth85
    by ruth85
    May 7, 2013 at 10:20 PM

    I was going to remind you that 15 year olds are tricky under the best of circumstances...sweet one moment, sarcastic and snarly the next.  Add in a divorce and meeting someone who is getting attention from Dad...it might take some time.  So regardless, if they dont behave well or are on the rude side, try not to take it personally or get bent about it. Go with the flow, be nice, be yourself and dont let it get to you.

  • CjEmmemommy
    May 7, 2013 at 10:24 PM

    Wait:)) I would wait. Lol 

     Just relax

  • Pam74033
    May 8, 2013 at 3:04 AM
    My DD is 14, no she isn't meeting them just yet. Sh says she's not ready. So we figured we would take them all to do something together to get them comfortable. Its all very stressful lol.


    Quoting ScrChk23:

    How old is your DD? Is she going too?



    Quoting Pam74033:

    Well he has them full time and I have my DD full time so finding time without all of them is sometimes an issue. He usually from what I understand doesn't rush into things but he asked so Ofcourse I accepted.






    Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

    Why so soon?



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