Im sure it was meant to be private. I actually feel bad for her. She sent it to someone im sure with every intent that they would find it attractive and like the picture. She felt sexy in her fancy red and black panties. Someone clearly has told her they like her boobs or whatnot that grinch would be so happy there. Now we as moms are posting it and making fun of her. She is someones bff, someones sister, mom, daughter, whatever. She wasnt being mean, she wasnt hurting anyone. SHe was trying to be playful and flirty. Does she not deserve to feel pretty and sexy just because she is older and heavy? Do you not know any man who adores his wife and finds her sexy though she is older and heavy? I do not have the confidence to send a picture like that to my husband but I can only imagine the pain and betrayal I would feel if I did and he posted it for others to laugh at.