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So SO broke it off Sunday with me. We were having issues with his family and friends saying mean things to me and starting fights. Not me at all, I normally walk off when they start. Which resulted in me being told I am not sociable.
Anyways Sat SO was having a welcome home party for his daughter. I ask his friend B, at the house if she wanted help cooking. She ignored me. I then ask his cousin G if she needed help and I got go away. So I went into our room and watched tv with my boys.
We get to the park and none of the kids wanted to play with mine, so they played alone. I got ignored. As they were cleaning up I started having severe chest pains. I called my mom and she came and got my boys. I dont want them knowing my heart is acting up.
SO said hed take me to the er. His friends and family were po. Two hrs later and me in severe pain he was able to take me.
I checked out fine was told it was stres.
We woke up in the morning did our thing, then he took me home. Said i love yous and hugged. Thirty mints later when he got home, I got a text that it was over.
It was hurtful, but ill be ok. I guess.
What do you think?
UPDATE
So thanku so much ladies for your support and love. Im heading to the spa tomm, my guy friends are taking me there, shopping, manis pedis, and dinner. Happy happy!
As for the negative comments, i had no money for a cab whatever. I got shorted out of a hundred in my cs this mth. smh And my disability hasnt gone in yet.
He called me yesterday and said he felt stuck in the middle between his family and friends drama and me. He said give a wk or two, let it blow over then wed get back together. I said get a life and go elsewhere I am done.
So yeah hes regretting it and upset. i am done.
thank u and hugs ladies!
Anyways Sat SO was having a welcome home party for his daughter. I ask his friend B, at the house if she wanted help cooking. She ignored me. I then ask his cousin G if she needed help and I got go away. So I went into our room and watched tv with my boys.
We get to the park and none of the kids wanted to play with mine, so they played alone. I got ignored. As they were cleaning up I started having severe chest pains. I called my mom and she came and got my boys. I dont want them knowing my heart is acting up.
SO said hed take me to the er. His friends and family were po. Two hrs later and me in severe pain he was able to take me.
I checked out fine was told it was stres.
We woke up in the morning did our thing, then he took me home. Said i love yous and hugged. Thirty mints later when he got home, I got a text that it was over.
It was hurtful, but ill be ok. I guess.
What do you think?
UPDATE
So thanku so much ladies for your support and love. Im heading to the spa tomm, my guy friends are taking me there, shopping, manis pedis, and dinner. Happy happy!
As for the negative comments, i had no money for a cab whatever. I got shorted out of a hundred in my cs this mth. smh And my disability hasnt gone in yet.
He called me yesterday and said he felt stuck in the middle between his family and friends drama and me. He said give a wk or two, let it blow over then wed get back together. I said get a life and go elsewhere I am done.
So yeah hes regretting it and upset. i am done.
thank u and hugs ladies!
Replies
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I think if he was letting them be that way to you, you are better off. You don't need that in your life.
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How long were you with him?
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5 mths together. I swear I get at 5 mth or 6mth mark and poof they are gone. smh
Quoting christina0607:
How long were you with him?
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His family sounded like a bunch of assholes anyways! And what sort o parent let's their kids ignore other kids purposely at a family function?? If that's not bad parenting I don't know what is!! You're probably much better off!!!! On to new and better things for you!!!!! And what a chicken shit way of breaking things off with a txt!!!!! He's lame!!!!! Don't shed a tear over him!!!! -
Glad I found out now rather than down the rd. True
One of my friends is taking me out friday. Cant wait, he said u r going to be suprised where we are going. :-)
Quoting mommy2alissa:
I think if he was letting them be that way to you, you are better off. You don't need that in your life.
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Oh, then he probably just decided that he wasn't that into you.
I think by the 5mo mark you know.
Quoting F_Stathouse:
5 mths together. I swear I get at 5 mth or 6mth mark and poof they are gone. smh
Quoting christina0607:
How long were you with him?
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Why did they treat you like that? That's messed up. Hope you have fun with your friend! :) -
I dont know. And when I confronted him about his daughter kicking my son in the crotch he said ok. ughh so done
My guy friends are taking me out this fri, sat, and sunday. Its a suprise.
Quoting DomesticDoll:
His family sounded like a bunch of assholes anyways! And what sort o parent let's their kids ignore other kids purposely at a family function?? If that's not bad parenting I don't know what is!! You're probably much better off!!!! On to new and better things for you!!!!! And what a chicken shit way of breaking things off with a txt!!!!! He's lame!!!!! Don't shed a tear over him!!!!
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Oh good grief.
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What a coward. Good for you for not letting this get to you too much. Enjoy your weekend! :)